Therapy for Elite Athletes

Push the edge while leading with heart.

You’ve mastered performance. Now master presence.

Few people understand you. The demands of a high-stakes, ultra endurance and highly competitive athlete, may make you the storyteller of the party, but this is also a lonely life. You may connect with other athletes but few understand the concept of suffering for fun, the intensity of training and fueling, and the pressure to perform at a high level. In fact, you are met with all kinds of questions, judgments, and comments on this lifestyle, ranging from “must be nice” to “you’re a freak.” Answering “So how was your weekend?” after a 100-miler is hilarious.

Perhaps you are struggling to manage the stress or the schedule, and the breakdowns are showing up in your most valued relationships. You are not as present at home as you (or your spouse) want you to be. Perhaps you notice challenges with unprocessed health anxieties or childhood traumas interfering with performance. You can acknowledge you may need help, but you are having trouble finding a therapist who respects your intensity.

How can therapy help?

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You can perform at the edge while leading with heart.

Your life once defined by resilience, success, and may be unraveling. Chronic stress exposure and the demands of high stakes performance will accumulate. It will affect your home life, socialization, and functioning in ways that start out more subtle. It changes the way you see the world, how you parent and connect with spouses, your idea of small talk with average performers, and certainly your tolerance for excuses.

Therapy can help you identify what is working, what is no longer working, and what to do about it. Evidence-based practice are based on significant research and proven results. Sessions are tailored to your specific pursuit, needs, skillset, and struggles.

You will learn:

  • Tools to restore focus and mindfully choose your battles

  • To identify cues that help you respond rather than react

  • More effective communication patterns

  • To process, and contain, any past intrusive traumas

  • Pathways for creating future templates of success

Performance does not have to come at the cost of connection.

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Reconnect to recommit.

You want a therapist who works as hard as you do and understands the demands of chronic stress exposure and high performance. Though I am not an elite athlete by any means, I do know what it is like to DNF, to dance the line between “am I dying” and “this is fine”, and feel the guilt in asking family members to support the dumb shit I keep signing up for that I swore I wouldn’t do again. Reintegrating into society to socialize, work, and generally function as a “normal" person, and to stay present in the monotony of daily life, is a challenge that few can understand.

In my office, you can openly talk about the pressure you feel, the boredom with daily life, disconnection from loved ones, and other challenges unique to elite performers. Unburdening these fears, nurturing the you outside of the performer, and reconnecting to trust (instead of being beholden to fear) can unlock intuitive and powerful performance.

You are in good hands. I can help you.

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